Jocko Podcast #8 - With Echo Charles | Jocko's Weakness

2016-02-03T08:08:44Z

0:00:00 - 1:05:01 - Book Review: The USMC Manual 1:05:02 - Injury, recovery, and mentality for quicker recovery. Finding Physical limits without recovery. 1:11:20 - What injuries has Jocko gotten? And how did he adapt? 1:19:28 - Fear of Public Speaking and other things. 1:26:42 - When you know you're "that guy" as a leader. 1:31:41 - What is Jocko's biggest weakness? And what is he doing to work through it? Twitter / Instagram: @jockowillink @echocharles

AI summary of episode

You know, people have these pet peeves about, like for example, when people call me boss, you know, you know, when people say, hey, what's up? So a lot of people, especially if they're trying to cut up or drop some weight, and you know, if you're training for something, you got to make weight that's, you know, that's going to be a little bit more specific strategy, but a lot of times people will starve themselves. I know, I know some guys that have done extreme yoga, and I think extreme yoga is, you know, once you go beyond what is normal or a little beyond normal, you start to injure yourself And I think that when people, I think when people take extended periods of time off, and by that I think I mean, you know, you're starting to get into like two weeks, three weeks, maybe a month of not doing anything. Say stuff like, hey, it was true, you know, they say something that's rude or whatever and they'll be like, hey, I speak the truth if you don't like it kind of that's like lack of tact. Also, when it in regards to being conscious of, like, your movement a lot of times, I know this is the case for me, where I'll get little injuries from just like, racking or unracking weights just because it's like, oh, maybe I need to do more functional training, my friend. And I think one of the things that, the kind of the thing that I say to people when they say, Look, this is crushing me and I feel horrible and I don't know if I'm going to be able to get back. They know that there's a battle going on within you, that there's a battle you've got to fight every day, that there's a spirit that's going to be rebuilt when it's broken down. But they're all, I mean, we could just sit here and the rest of this podcast could be, you know, I come in up with the various frictions in life, whether it's, you know, who want to sleep more, want not, not the gym isn't close enough to my house. and you, um, like, how you're staying, bodyweight squats, you'll just do, you know, like if you're, if you had a six-squat workout planned, and you feel your lower back or your IT band is a big one where when you, when you get after it in squats, that'll, um, a lot of times act up. And when you work on this, what I learned early on and understanding the importance of this, I think really, really helped is if you eat right after you work out, don't think that you're going to eat a meal, and that's going to fuel your workout. And the whole thing was, you know, it said a lot, the whole thing was exercises the only thing that affects every other part of your life, the only thing. And this is how do you figure out when something is like, you know, the right thing to do, do the right thing. But you're going to listen, you're going to learn, you're going to talk to people about what you're doing. You know, we're going for a deadlift and then you're going for a mile time run So when you're doing something, if you say, okay, I'm going to go on, you know, cable news tomorrow and I'm going to debrief everybody what I did. Yeah, like you know people, rude people, for example, they'll they'll say stuff. I think stretching is important, but I think people take it to an excess, and I think when you do too much of it, I think it's, I think it's causes problems.

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Episode transcript

[00:00:00] This is Jocco podcast, number eight, with echo Charles, and me, Jocco Willink.
[00:00:09] Good evening, echo. Good evening.
[00:00:13] In 1952, a young Marine, Robert A. Ganon, arrived on shore at Injon, Korea, where he was going to be shipped north to fight.
[00:00:28] As they gathered ahead north, he saw stacks of sea bags, which is like a military, duffle bag, and he saw him sitting in the rain.
[00:00:40] No one had to explain what they were doing there, why they belonged to Marines that had been killed on the front.
[00:00:50] He wrote this poem years later about seeing those sandbags, seeing those sea bags, piled high.
[00:01:04] When clouds are gray and lowering and fog of scares the plane, I sometimes think I catch a sight of sea bags in the rain.
[00:01:15] I know it is a vision to a theo to last, but it brings a whisp of sadness and a haunting of the past.
[00:01:25] We had come ashore at Injon in 1952, and in administrative landing, just a unit passing through.
[00:01:35] We mustered at the railhead, lining up to board a train, when through the stormy darkness, I saw sea bags in the rain.
[00:01:47] There was no need to question why they were lying there, looking lonely and abandoned in the damp Korean air.
[00:01:57] Their owners had gone northward, and would not return again, from where hells of bitter battle took the lives of fighting men.
[00:02:10] Now when fog and darkness gather, I really can't restrain, my sad and thoughts of Injon and sea bags in the rain.
[00:02:21] So imagine that you're a young Marine who has joined the Marine Corps, and you're fired up, and you have the visions of glory.
[00:02:31] And that romantic vision in your mind of what war is going to be like, and you get to Korea.
[00:02:39] And it's an administrative landing, so there's no shooting going on, and you're now you're on the ground, and you're in Korea.
[00:02:46] And then you mustered to go north and go to the battlefield, go to the front, and you see these sea bags of all these Marines that have been killed and combat.
[00:02:58] And you can imagine what that does psychologically to guys, and obviously to Robert A. Ganon, it affects him, affected him as whole life.
[00:03:12] And he still thinks about it, and as much of a intense experience as that is, the Marine Corps has been walking past those bags, you know, theoretically walking past those bags for over 200 years.
[00:03:36] And going forward, going into the fray towards the risk, towards in many cases toward death.
[00:03:48] And I'm kind of leading in with talking about the Marine Corps tonight.
[00:03:53] Who I have just absolute respect for the United States Marine Corps. We worked closely with them when we were in Ramadi in 2006, mostly with the three eight Marines, which is the third battalion, eighth Marine regimen.
[00:04:10] And they were there for the bulk of the deployment with us.
[00:04:15] Then they got relieved by the one six Marines who arrived towards the end of our cruise. And but prior to that, my whole career I was working with Marines. I was did multiple ship board deployments with Marines.
[00:04:29] I did a turnover with the first Marsaw Company in Baghdad in 2004. So I know Marines well.
[00:04:36] And like I said, they just have my absolute respect. And as a warrior class.
[00:04:44] Which is what they are, a warrior class of men and women, their professionalism and their commitment.
[00:04:53] It is, it's impeccable.
[00:04:59] And because they fought, you know, in all major wars, they no one understand combat very well.
[00:05:07] And therefore they know and they understand combat leadership very well.
[00:05:17] And with that, we are going to look tonight at what used to be called the FMFM 1100.
[00:05:28] And that was the Fleet Marine Force manual, which is now called the MCWP, the Marine Corps Warfighting Publication 6, 1011.
[00:05:39] And the title of the document is called Leading Marines.
[00:05:55] And so what I did is it kind of like I do with most of these books that we look at.
[00:06:00] I went through it and found the pieces that struck me as highly applicable to combat, which makes them highly applicable to life and to business and to the way we go through this world.
[00:06:16] So I've pulled some of these ideas out, some quotes out, some sections out to talk about.
[00:06:25] And discuss. And here we go.
[00:06:31] Imagine you are riflemen in a company ready to assault a line of enemy machine gun bunkers.
[00:06:39] You are lying flat on the ground protected for the moment by a slight rise between you and the enemy.
[00:06:46] But just above your head, the enemies guns are throwing a visible and audible curtain of lead, which thuds into the trees around you, causing you to wonder if it makes the same sound when it hits flesh.
[00:07:01] You tell yourself it's impossible, impossible to penetrate that curtain of fire alive.
[00:07:10] Yet, in a moment a sergeant's voice will boom, let's go, you can't live forever.
[00:07:19] But all you hear now is the clatter of machine guns.
[00:07:23] The vision of dead and wounded you saw on the way up to the front rises to plague you.
[00:07:29] Your belly deflates and lies flat against your backbone.
[00:07:33] And all the gallant thoughts you would hope to have at this moment are gone.
[00:07:40] You are naked and alone with the instinct of self preservation.
[00:07:52] And that's what soldiers and Marines face, not all of them, but many of them.
[00:08:00] And they, in these situations, and situations even worse than this, they do decide to go forward.
[00:08:10] They decide to go forward into that male trauma of fire and of death.
[00:08:20] And soldiers and warriors have done that for thousands of years.
[00:08:27] And you ask yourself, and the purpose that they wrote that paragraph was so that they could ask that question, why?
[00:08:36] And here's what the Marine Corps says about it.
[00:08:38] Why do individuals rush forward against their most basic instincts?
[00:08:43] Why do Marines take their lives in their hands and lead a charge straight into enemy guns?
[00:08:50] In World War II, what was it that made Marines clamber out of their landing clafters?
[00:08:56] Landing craft into water of unknown depth and charging to a hail of machine gun and artillery fire, not knowing whether they would ever make it to the beach?
[00:09:06] In Vietnam, what was it that made a Marine take the point and start down the dark and misty jungle trail?
[00:09:14] At the heart of why Marines are able to put mission accomplishment over concern for their own safety is leadership.
[00:09:23] Leadership that is the combination of the intangible elements of our ethos and the more tangible elements of our leadership philosophy.
[00:09:34] So they're saying that this courage comes from the leadership and from the ethos that they live that is brought to the troopers through the leadership, which is a pretty profound statement.
[00:09:50] It's a very profound statement.
[00:09:52] And I jumped out of this manual from a moment and I grabbed sort of the Marine Corps principles of leadership.
[00:09:59] In other words, here they are justice, judgment, dependability, initiative, decisiveness, tact, integrity, enthusiasm, bearing, unselfishness, courage, knowledge, loyalty, endurance.
[00:10:20] Those are the traits that they talk about and when I actually from that list, I think they're all pretty obvious why they're on that list.
[00:10:30] The one exception, or I would say the one that stands out to me a little bit as maybe what people wouldn't expect is tact.
[00:10:38] Yeah, I didn't say tactical or tactics, I said tact and they actually go on to define that a little bit further.
[00:10:51] The definition of tact is the ability to deal with others in a manner that will maintain good relations and avoid offense.
[00:10:56] More simply stated tact is the ability to say and do the right thing at the right time. So obviously, almost every time we sit down at this podcast table and do our work here, we end up somehow talking about the interactions between human beings.
[00:11:13] And they actually put this as a one of their tenants is that you have to have tact. The quality of consistently treating peers, seniors and subordinates with respect and courtesy is a sign of maturity.
[00:11:30] Tact allows commands, guidance and opinions to be expressed in a constructive and beneficial manner.
[00:11:39] For instance, must be extended under all conditions regardless of true feelings.
[00:11:47] Regardless of true feelings, they are saying you have despite the fact that that person annoys you or that you think you can do a better job or all those things that we talk about regularly here.
[00:11:57] You have to have tact regardless of your true feelings.
[00:12:01] Yeah, like you know people, rude people, for example, they'll they'll say stuff.
[00:12:08] Say stuff like, hey, it was true, you know, they say something that's rude or whatever and they'll be like, hey, I speak the truth if you don't like it kind of that's like lack of tact.
[00:12:20] That is a public of tact.
[00:12:21] I've always thought that we're you always wonder why those people aren't in leadership positions.
[00:12:29] Yeah, but they don't have tact.
[00:12:31] Yeah, because who wants to be around somebody that acts like this.
[00:12:33] And what's interesting about is, you know, one of the other words that they have on your integrity, right? And yet they're saying that, you know, regardless of your true feelings.
[00:12:41] So there's a little bit of a dichotomy there, you know, and to be the person that says, well, it's true. So I'm just going to say it.
[00:12:48] Right. No, tact should override integrity in dealing with people and human emotions.
[00:12:53] Yeah, and that's kind of what I've always thought when I hear people say rude things and be like, oh, it's okay for me to say these kinds of kinds of things because they're true.
[00:13:01] Even though a lot of times they're just their opinion, but they kind of, it's cloaked in this like presentation that they're just being honest.
[00:13:10] Yeah, you know, so that yeah, that's interesting how it's, oh, they're saying the tact overrides that quote unquote honesty.
[00:13:16] Yeah, you know, for the for the sake of leadership or the group or whatever.
[00:13:21] No doubt about it.
[00:13:23] So now as we get into this and what leaders, what leaders are actually leading against.
[00:13:30] Now, of course, there's an enemy, you're right. There's a force that's opposing you. So you're leading against them, but they have another word that.
[00:13:39] And the word is friction. And this is something for anybody that knows anything about sort of military science.
[00:13:46] Understand understands and it's heard the word friction before.
[00:13:50] And it's a word that comes from Carl Vaughn Klaus, who was a great pressure. General born in 1780 fought in the Ryan campaigns and the Napoleonic wars was a famous military theorist.
[00:14:04] And he wrote the famous book Vaughn Craig, which means on war. So that was his, that was his sort of masterpiece that he wrote.
[00:14:17] And it's well read by anybody that's in the military. It has read on war by Klaus Woods.
[00:14:25] So friction is a term that he coined as far as I know. It's a term that he coined. I haven't read it prior to him.
[00:14:33] And so talk about friction. Here's what Klaus Woods says about it.
[00:14:38] And this is from on war. Then again, I departed from the Marine Corps manual here for a few minutes to go a little bit deeper in friction.
[00:14:46] Everything is very simple in war, but the simplest thing is difficult.
[00:14:54] These difficulties accumulate and produce a friction, which no man can imagine exactly who is not seen war.
[00:15:02] So in war, through an influence of an infinite of petty circumstances, which cannot properly be described on paper, things disappoint us,
[00:15:13] and we fall short of the rank. So this idea of friction is all the little things that build up against you and against what you're trying to accomplish.
[00:15:28] And I love what he says next. A powerful iron will overcomes this friction. It crushes the obstacles.
[00:15:38] So your will can overcome them. But there's a buck, there's a caveat. But certainly the machine along with them.
[00:15:47] So your iron will can smash these obstacles, but it does take a toll on the will.
[00:15:55] The strong will of a proud spirit stands prominent and commanding in the middle of the art of war.
[00:16:04] And we'll get to will a little bit later. But right now we're talking about friction. Activity in war is a movement in a resistant medium.
[00:16:13] So it's, you know, as opposed to doing stuff on the ground and the air, you're doing it in water or you're doing it in oil.
[00:16:20] You're doing in something that is slowing you down and stops you.
[00:16:24] It is therefore this friction or what is so termed here, which makes that which appears easy and war difficult and reality.
[00:16:33] And I will tell you in working with all kinds of companies and businesses, there's friction in every business.
[00:16:41] There's friction in everything.
[00:16:43] Every goal that people have in a business world, there's friction and resistance that's trying to stop you from getting there.
[00:16:51] And obviously that just slides right over into your life.
[00:16:55] And those goals that you have and your fighting against this friction and what is this friction.
[00:17:00] This friction is everything. It's everything that is stopping you from achieving your goal.
[00:17:04] And in war, it's what the enemy does. It's the weather. It's a lack of ammunition.
[00:17:08] It's the, it's the materials that you need that are arriving in time. It's a muddy road.
[00:17:13] It's a strong, strong wind. It's all these little things.
[00:17:17] It's the weird attitude of your subordinates. It's the mental capacity of your leadership.
[00:17:24] It's all these things create this friction that are going to stop you from achieving your goals.
[00:17:28] Or at least it's going to try to stop you from achieving your goals.
[00:17:31] And it's the same thing when you get a business that's trying to make something happen.
[00:17:37] You know, when you go to formulate a business, this is not an easy process.
[00:17:42] This is a challenging process and there's a friction that just comes up against you.
[00:17:47] And obviously, like I said with your personal goals, we see friction all the time.
[00:17:52] Now the Marine Corps, here's their takes. So that was from Crossfits.
[00:17:57] And it was a little bit of an abridged version, but you know, I'm abridging.
[00:18:01] So this one is the Marine Corps.
[00:18:04] And you'll notice a little bit more clarity because it's written directly in English by Marines.
[00:18:08] So it's clearer than here's the Marine Corps take on friction.
[00:18:15] Friction dominates war.
[00:18:18] It makes simple tasks hard, acts constantly to tear down the will of the individual Marine and interferes with a unit cohesion.
[00:18:28] It operates across the entire spectrum of conflict from garrison activities to combat,
[00:18:34] from senior command elements down to the most forward fighting position.
[00:18:39] So the friction is everywhere. It's everywhere.
[00:18:42] It's on the front line troopers, our feeling friction.
[00:18:45] You know, the senior command has friction.
[00:18:48] That in this day and age, that friction can be loss of connectivity.
[00:18:52] You know, you're sitting there on the internet when you're trying to communicate with troops that are in the field nowadays.
[00:18:57] That internet goes down there's friction or your broadband cable gets stuffed up.
[00:19:02] It's literally that's friction.
[00:19:04] Everything is friction.
[00:19:06] Friction can be caused by external factors, such as physical environment,
[00:19:10] the nature of the mission or friendly or enemy action.
[00:19:14] Inadequate or inaccurate intelligence also contributes to friction by causing uncertainty.
[00:19:20] This uncertainty is sometimes called the fog of war,
[00:19:24] where things are not always what the leader expected.
[00:19:28] This expression describes both the literal fog created by dust, smoke, and debris on the battlefield.
[00:19:36] And more importantly, the mental fog of confusion and uncertainty created by lack of knowledge of the enemy,
[00:19:42] chaotic noise, mental and physical fatigue and fear.
[00:19:48] And interestingly,
[00:19:52] the first chapter, it's called the fog of war.
[00:20:00] And it is, and I talk about this fact right here.
[00:20:04] It was the literal fog of war because it was burning tires in the streets,
[00:20:08] creating so it everywhere.
[00:20:10] And it was concrete dust floating through the air and smoke from machine guns and smoke from smoke grenades.
[00:20:16] And so there's a literal fog of war where you can't see.
[00:20:18] And then on top of that, you add the theoretical fog where I didn't know where everyone was.
[00:20:24] And I wasn't sure what was happening.
[00:20:26] And so this fog of war is so very real.
[00:20:30] Frictions most lethal form.
[00:20:34] It's most lethal form.
[00:20:36] However,
[00:20:38] is self-induced.
[00:20:40] And maybe termed internal friction.
[00:20:44] So this, again, it's just incredible how these theories of war parallel life.
[00:20:52] And although you have these things that are going on in your world that are trying to stop you from achieving your goals,
[00:21:00] the most lethal form of friction is self-induced.
[00:21:05] It's what you do to yourself.
[00:21:08] And fear of the unknown breeds this paralysis.
[00:21:16] It is best overcome by vigorous leadership, which clearly sets out what is happening, how it is happening,
[00:21:22] and most importantly, why it is happening.
[00:21:26] So again, it is almost,
[00:21:32] I don't know if at some point I'm going to stop being surprised and stop being shocked and stop.
[00:21:37] Being stopped being amazed in the parallels between the war and life.
[00:21:49] And this is just one of them.
[00:21:51] Another one of them.
[00:21:52] To the self-induced friction.
[00:21:54] Yes.
[00:21:55] I think a big one that I've kind of noticed in, I think, most people have this as pet peeves.
[00:22:02] You know, people have these pet peeves about, like for example, when people call me boss,
[00:22:06] you know, you know, when people say, hey, what's up?
[00:22:09] You just talked about on those first podcast.
[00:22:11] Yeah, so, well, some friction with echoed girls.
[00:22:14] Yeah, and this totally self-induced don't mean anything bad by the word boss.
[00:22:18] But, meanwhile, I have this little almost check against them, because they prefer to me as boss or dude.
[00:22:24] I don't know why dude, actually, you know what?
[00:22:26] If a girl calls me dude, it seems real condescending even though I'm figure they don't.
[00:22:33] But that could jam up the relationship and potentially jam up any kind of task we have.
[00:22:40] That can be just just one little element that I jam you up and pet peeves in general.
[00:22:45] I know it will get in people's way.
[00:22:47] Yeah, pet peeves are stupid in my opinion.
[00:22:50] So you need to correct yourself on that one.
[00:22:52] Yeah.
[00:22:53] But they're all, I mean, we could just sit here and the rest of this podcast could be, you know,
[00:22:57] I come in up with the various frictions in life, whether it's, you know,
[00:23:01] who want to sleep more, want not, not the gym isn't close enough to my house.
[00:23:06] You know, you know, it's, you got a million reasons.
[00:23:09] You got a million pieces of friction.
[00:23:12] Countless, or as they say, as the Marine Corps says, countless minor incidents,
[00:23:18] the kind you can never really foresee, combine to lower the general level of performance,
[00:23:25] so that one always falls short of the intended goal.
[00:23:30] And this is very similar to class fits here.
[00:23:32] Iron will power can overcome this friction.
[00:23:36] It polverizes every obstacle.
[00:23:39] But of course, it wears down the machine as well.
[00:23:42] You can see they obviously took that directly from class fits.
[00:23:47] Whatever form it takes, because war is a human enterprise,
[00:23:50] friction will always have a psychological as well as a physical impact.
[00:23:55] So you're getting worn.
[00:23:56] You are getting worn down by the friction.
[00:23:59] Friction is inevitable.
[00:24:01] Marine leaders must accept it.
[00:24:03] Do everything in their power to minimize its effects and learn to fight effectively in spite of it.
[00:24:11] What I, one of the things that I really like about this term is that it captures everything.
[00:24:20] And it turns everything, you know, it clarifies what you're up against.
[00:24:26] You're not just up against all these little things.
[00:24:29] You're up against friction.
[00:24:30] And actually, I was with Joe Rogan, and he talked about this book,
[00:24:36] The War of Art, which I haven't read yet.
[00:24:38] I press field.
[00:24:40] And he does the same thing.
[00:24:42] But what does he call it?
[00:24:43] Because it resisted.
[00:24:44] And so it's the same idea.
[00:24:46] You know, you put a name on your enemy.
[00:24:49] You identify them whether it's laziness or sugar or sugar.
[00:24:55] Or lack of movement or whatever that thing is.
[00:24:59] That's what they do.
[00:25:01] And it allows you to identify it and be aware of what is happening.
[00:25:07] Now speaking of how to overcome that, this next part of leadership here is.
[00:25:13] And we already mentioned it's will.
[00:25:16] And it's something that I obviously identify as extremely important.
[00:25:22] Because it's the driver of life.
[00:25:26] It's the driver of your discipline as your will to make things happen.
[00:25:30] And it keeps us on the path.
[00:25:32] You know, it keeps us on the path to victory.
[00:25:34] And I talked about it when I was on the Sam Harris podcast.
[00:25:38] And I also talked about it on the history channel when they, for the lived-a-tell episode,
[00:25:45] which is about Mark Lee, the first seal killed in Iraq.
[00:25:48] And I talked about, you know, what is it take to win?
[00:25:51] And the most important thing it takes to win is will.
[00:25:56] The will to win.
[00:26:00] So the Marine Corps goes into a story.
[00:26:03] That's about will.
[00:26:05] And I'm going to read it.
[00:26:11] A sign to defend a three-mile mountain pass along the division's main supply line and commanding the only route of approach.
[00:26:20] Captain Barber took position with his battle-weary troops.
[00:26:24] And before nightfall, had dug in and set up a defense along the frozen snow-covered hillside.
[00:26:31] When a force of estimated regimental strength savagely attacked during the night in flipping heavy casualties and finally surrounding his position.
[00:26:40] Following a bitterly fought seven-hour conflict.
[00:26:43] Captain Barber, after repulsing the enemy, gave assurance that he could hold if supplied by air drops and requested permission to stand fast.
[00:26:53] After orders were received to fight his way back to a relieving force.
[00:26:58] After two reinforcing units had been driven back under fierce resistance in attempts to reach the isolated troops.
[00:27:05] So here was Captain Barber with his troops that are on this ridge line.
[00:27:10] They hold off the enemy and then they get told, hey, you know what?
[00:27:14] Now that you've held the enemy off, go ahead and fight back to our position.
[00:27:18] And he says, no.
[00:27:20] No, we're not fighting back.
[00:27:21] We're going to stay here.
[00:27:22] We're going to hold this ground.
[00:27:25] Although severely wounded, Captain Barber continued to maintain personal control,
[00:27:31] often moving up and down the lines on a stretcher to direct defense, and consistently encourage and inspiring his men to supreme efforts, despite the staggering opposition.
[00:27:43] Waging desperate battle throughout five days and six nights have repeated onslaughts launched by fanatical aggressors.
[00:27:52] He and his heroic command accounted for approximately 1,000 enemy dead in this epic stand in bitter, sub-zero weather.
[00:28:00] And when the company was relieved, only 82 of his original 220 men were able to walk away from the position, so valiantly defended against insuparable odds.
[00:28:12] His profound faith and courage, great personal valor and unwavering fortitude, which is in other words his will,
[00:28:22] were decisive factors in the successful withdrawal of the division from the death trap in the chosen reservoir sector.
[00:28:34] That's a will.
[00:28:36] And that shows you what will is capable of.
[00:28:40] I mean, when you talk about sub-zero temperatures, you put, you just put people out in sub-zero temperatures for a night.
[00:28:46] That will break most people.
[00:28:49] Now get attacked all night.
[00:28:53] Now stay up there for five days and six nights.
[00:28:57] It's just the only thing that can win in that battle is will, human will.
[00:29:05] From the same battle, Lieutenant Colonel Murray, who was commanding the fifth Marines at the chosen reservoir,
[00:29:12] and he was summoned up what was required of leaders. And this is very impactful when I read this.
[00:29:19] I personally felt in a state of shock.
[00:29:23] The kind of shock one gets from some great personal tragedy, the sudden loss of someone close.
[00:29:31] So he gets into this bad situation.
[00:29:33] That's what he feels. This guy is the commander of all those Marines in the chosen reservoir.
[00:29:39] This shock, like someone like someone's died and he feels it.
[00:29:45] And then he says, my first fight was within myself.
[00:29:50] I had to rebuild that emptiness of spirit.
[00:29:59] And you know, I get asked. I've gotten asked on Twitter. I've gotten some direct messages.
[00:30:04] I've gotten people that ask me about loss. They've lost people that are close to them.
[00:30:10] Whether it's guys talking about being in combat or whether it's people that are in civilian world and disease or accident.
[00:30:16] It's taken people from them.
[00:30:18] And I think one of the things that, the kind of the thing that I say to people when they say,
[00:30:24] Look, this is crushing me and I feel horrible and I don't know if I'm going to be able to get back.
[00:30:31] And my first statement is always like, of course, of course.
[00:30:37] And that is normal. It is normal for you to feel that way when you lose people.
[00:30:45] And you could see that this, you know, Lieutenant Colonel in combat,
[00:30:51] he went through the same thing. This hardcore badass Marine had to go, okay, I feel this loss and I have to rebuild.
[00:31:00] I have to rebuild the fight was within himself.
[00:31:05] And so I think that's very important for people that are listening to this podcast that are in the military.
[00:31:15] You are going on the battlefield and you, if you're in the, if you're fighting long enough, you will have casualties.
[00:31:23] And that is one of the things I know when my guys were killed, I felt the same damn thing, the horrible,
[00:31:33] wretched emptiness.
[00:31:37] And I knew I had to rebuild it.
[00:31:44] And so reading this quote definitely brings me back to that.
[00:31:50] And it clarifies it when I talk to other people about losing someone that that loss that you're feeling,
[00:31:58] that emptiness, that shock is normal.
[00:32:03] And it's okay. And don't think that it's going to just disappear. You've got to rebuild it.
[00:32:09] You've got to rebuild that spirit.
[00:32:15] And so this manual goes on to say, for leaders to hold units together under adverse conditions, they first must fight and win the battle within themselves.
[00:32:31] And that's not me talking. That is this manual talking. That is the Marine Corps talking about leading Marines.
[00:32:38] They know that there's a battle going on within you, that there's a battle you've got to fight every day,
[00:32:43] that there's a spirit that's going to be rebuilt when it's broken down.
[00:32:47] This is what combat is, this is what war is, and this is what life is.
[00:32:57] It goes on to talk about the difference between peace time and combat.
[00:33:04] Leading in combat is vastly different from leading in peace time. Anybody can give orders and have them obeyed at a peace time poster station.
[00:33:14] There, nothing blocks the way to obedience. The brig, meaning jail, pay reductions in emotion, may be all the incentive necessary to instill good order in discipline.
[00:33:27] But execution of orders in combat may mean immediate danger or even a likelihood of getting killed.
[00:33:35] The Marines, the Marine needs to know why an order is given and how it is to be executed.
[00:33:41] We talk about this all the time. People have gotten to know why they're doing what they're doing.
[00:33:45] And I'll tell you, the first section of that, the Marines don't leave like that.
[00:33:49] The Marines don't go around saying, hey, you will do this or all sent you to the brig.
[00:33:53] Pay reductions or emotions. That's not how leadership works and it's not that way in the Marine court. Of course, those are there.
[00:33:59] If you need them, but you don't want to lead like that, you don't want to lead with beatings.
[00:34:05] Yeah.
[00:34:07] Above all, Marines need to feel that the leader giving the order knows what he or she is about.
[00:34:17] Even given the best trainings, how Marines perform will depend on the kind of leadership they had.
[00:34:25] By the example and courage demonstrated by their leader.
[00:34:29] Napoleon said, there are no bad regiments, only bad kernels, which is very interesting.
[00:34:37] And it's a very common statement that Napoleon said, and, you know, we've talked about face on this because David Hackworth says,
[00:34:45] there's no bad units, only bad officers. And then, lay for an eye and extreme ownership.
[00:34:51] We have, there's no bad teams, only bad leaders.
[00:34:54] Yeah.
[00:34:54] And you know, we say, there's no bad students, there's only bad teachers.
[00:34:57] So there's no bad students, there's only bad instructors.
[00:35:00] That's the same thing.
[00:35:01] It's the same thing.
[00:35:03] And, you know, from Napoleon to Hackworth to lay for an eye, saying that, what the Marine court is saying here, a unit led by an able and aggressive leader, a aggressive leader.
[00:35:14] Who commands respect because he sets the example and demonstrated courage and confidence will perform any task asked of them.
[00:35:26] Not some tasks, not most of the tasks, not the easy tasks, any task.
[00:35:34] A aggressive leader who commands respect because he set the example and demonstrated courage and confidence will perform any task asked of them.
[00:35:43] That's what leadership is about.
[00:35:48] Now we get into the moral challenge.
[00:35:54] Armies of superior numbers have been put to flight before one man out of ten is fallen.
[00:36:02] They were not beaten by blows, which became more than flesh could bear.
[00:36:09] They were beaten in spirit, according to laws as old as the human heart.
[00:36:15] And the victor is the one who can best apply those laws.
[00:36:21] So you can have a great, a huge force, a much bigger force, and they can break before anyone's even been killed or when of only a few people have been killed because their spirit is broken.
[00:36:34] When people conduct lives built on high moral standards and physical fitness, they tend to develop qualities that produce inspired leadership and discipline.
[00:36:44] It is not a new notion. It could be found in any great military force in the past.
[00:36:50] The gaining moral ascendancy requires that subordinates feel that their leaders genuinely care for them, that they are fighting for a worthy cause and ensuring that their sacrifices are not made in vain.
[00:37:05] I talk about that one regularly.
[00:37:09] Your people have got to know that you cannot think that you care about them. They got to know that you care about them. That's what leadership is. You're leading this group because you care about this group.
[00:37:26] Acting as a buffer to protect subordinates is a key responsibility of any leader. Leaders must avoid passing the buck. Leaders must, if necessary, act from the courage of their own convictions, even when such a position runs counter to the policy of seniors.
[00:37:45] We talked about that last time. Remember Napoleon said that if you're following my orders and you get a bunch of guys killed, it's your fault. You're culpable if it's a bad plan. If you listen, if you obeyed my bad order, it's your fault.
[00:38:01] It's the same thing that's being said here. Even when a position runs counter to the policy of seniors. Leaders must always accept full responsibility for their actions.
[00:38:13] Hello. Extreme. Extreme ownership right there. Leaders must always accept full responsibility for actions for their actions.
[00:38:22] And like you said extreme ownership. That's what our books about trying to make that.
[00:38:28] At the utmost level of responsibility is to own everything that's happening regardless of who's it fault, who might be it fault.
[00:38:38] One of their factors were in play doesn't matter. Take ownership of it all.
[00:38:46] Now we get into physical challenge.
[00:38:51] The physical demands of battle encompass more than being fit. And these demands influence both the leader and the lead.
[00:39:02] The effects of sleep deprivation, poor diet, poor hygiene, and most importantly, fear.
[00:39:09] Have to be understood and be a part of everyday training. No one is immune to fatigue.
[00:39:17] As Marines become increasingly tired, they may lose the ability to make rapid decisions and are susceptible to being confused, disoriented, and ultimately ineffective.
[00:39:30] Guards and pride are not a substitute for fitness.
[00:39:36] And one one place where that becomes completely evident is in mixed martial arts where you get guys.
[00:39:45] They got a lot of guts and they got a lot of pride.
[00:39:49] But you think all this person's never going to tap. Once they get broken down and fatigue sets in, fatigue makes coward of us all.
[00:40:04] It's not a substitute. So guts and pride are not a substitute for fitness. They're a good augment to fitness, but they don't take the place of it.
[00:40:12] A leader relying on guts and pride will not be able to fully concentrate on the mission or the task at hand.
[00:40:20] Exact limits of endurance cannot be determined, but physical conditioning is one method of reducing the effects of physical exertion.
[00:40:29] And it can increase individual self confidence and reduce stress. So how always tell people to work out.
[00:40:36] That's why you got to get up and go because it increases individual self confidence and reduces stress.
[00:40:44] I'm produces the effect of physical exertion. It's just good so many benefits.
[00:40:51] Yeah, and that's the I think the most important is that it reduces the effects later.
[00:40:58] So, you know, if you're in shape, your heart's strong, your mind is strong because you've worked out your whole life or just your just into fitness, you perform.
[00:41:10] There was this man I heard this thing where it was an article, right, where it said, why exercise is the most important part of business.
[00:41:20] And the whole thing was, you know, it said a lot, the whole thing was exercises the only thing that affects every other part of your life, the only thing.
[00:41:29] So you can have all these other traits and, you know, and sure they might affect one thing.
[00:41:34] Most things don't affect anything. They just affect that one thing. Like if you have money, you go, okay, you have money and that affects like XYZ.
[00:41:40] But exercise will affect your ability to make money. It'll affect your relationship. It'll affect everything. And it's the one thing that does.
[00:41:47] Break out your jump rope, people, get out your kettlebells, time to get it on.
[00:41:52] Yeah. That's why if you ever get in a relationship where the girl's like, oh, you know, you put the gym or do you get to or something before me?
[00:42:06] That's a red flag. Red flag.
[00:42:08] Yeah, red flag. I'm not saying break up with I'm saying that's a red flag.
[00:42:11] It is a warning. Yes.
[00:42:13] It is a warning. It's some friction. That's some friction. That's a friction.
[00:42:18] The physical development back to the book of the physical development of marine leaders must include dealing with the nature natural fear of interpersonal violence,
[00:42:29] which contributes significantly to the fog and friction of combat,
[00:42:34] dealing with the fear of interpersonal violence. So I talked about this with Sam Harris.
[00:42:43] And that is if you're, you know, one of the worst things that happens when somebody gets assaulted,
[00:42:49] if they've never been had somebody on them grinding on them before and grabbing them and holding them and smashing them,
[00:42:56] they've never had that feeling before. They're already way behind. They're a way behind because they're just not used to it.
[00:43:03] They're completely new to them. Yeah, whereas obviously someone that trains in martial arts,
[00:43:08] like you jitsu, where you're, you're, you're getting round on and people are smashing you and you're used to it.
[00:43:14] It's part of your deal. It's part of your life.
[00:43:16] Man, and you, and you've been in actual fire fights, but that's why getting some sort of a gun training or firearm training is good,
[00:43:26] because if you've never shot a gun before and you fire it, you don't watch your movies and stuff,
[00:43:31] that's not prepared for how loud that is. And they're like, just the, just the impact and your whole,
[00:43:36] your whole thing, you know, when, when you fire a gun. So if that were to happen in some stressful situation,
[00:43:42] someone attacks you or someone fires a gun in your presence and it's, you know, this commotion,
[00:43:46] just dealing with the fact that a gun was fired alone is like this huge battle that you have to,
[00:43:52] they, they, essentially lost because you're not, you just not used to it. That's a hit, you know?
[00:43:57] You need to inoculate yourself to these situations. Yeah. And we will actually be talking about that a little later tonight.
[00:44:02] Yeah, man.
[00:44:05] Units and their leaders that do not have the mental and physical strength to overcome fear will not be able to fight effectively and overcome friction.
[00:44:15] In fact, one of the greatest sources of friction is physical exertion, and it may be required of individuals, units, or both.
[00:44:26] And again, the physical exertion thing, you know, we do at the gym, we do shark tank, right?
[00:44:34] So guys got to fight coming up, or guys got to turn them and coming up. And so we put them in the middle and they're getting fresh guys, you know,
[00:44:40] every two minutes, one minute, sometimes four minutes, sometimes five minutes depending on what they're going into.
[00:44:46] But you can watch and see a total destroyer of a guy.
[00:44:51] After they breach that breaking point, just get mopped up. And again, we're taking them there for a reason.
[00:44:59] You know, we're taking them there, so they do have to rely on their technique. And so they do get conditioned and anoculated against that breaking point.
[00:45:08] So they learn how to dig even deeper.
[00:45:10] Yeah.
[00:45:11] But you can get anyone there. I mean, you can get anyone so physically exhausted that they're no longer capable of, you know, doing even the slight percentage of what they would normally be capable of.
[00:45:20] So you have to maintain that conditioning at the highest level all the time that you can.
[00:45:26] And that's like, I mean, really, like you're saying, it's, it's not just the physical conditioning.
[00:45:33] You're conditioning them to the situation like well, how you said when they're beyond their physical kind of breaking point where they don't have all their strength.
[00:45:41] Right.
[00:45:42] The point where you feel like stopping going beyond that point, if you rarely or never been beyond that point,
[00:45:49] once you get there, you're completely done.
[00:45:51] Yeah.
[00:45:52] You want to realize that you can push through that.
[00:45:54] Yeah.
[00:45:55] There's a little more that you think there is.
[00:45:56] Yeah.
[00:45:57] You get conditioned to it and you're ready for it.
[00:45:58] Yeah.
[00:46:01] The gain in more force, deriving from all forms of physical training is an unconscious gain.
[00:46:08] Yeah.
[00:46:09] I actually think it's not just an unconscious gain.
[00:46:11] I think it's a conscious gain too.
[00:46:12] I think when I get, when I train, I feel better.
[00:46:15] I feel stronger.
[00:46:17] I feel sharper.
[00:46:21] Willpower, determination, mental, poison, and muscle control are all March hand in hand with a general health and well-being of the individual.
[00:46:34] So, again, according to the Marine Corps, that this physical training increases your willpower, your determination, your mental, poison, your muscle control, clearly.
[00:46:46] As you stated earlier, physical training is important across the board.
[00:46:59] Establishing and maintaining standards.
[00:47:03] Maintaining this attitude and standard of excellence is a responsibility not limited to officers, staff non-commission officers, or non-commissioned officers.
[00:47:13] It is the responsibility of all Marines.
[00:47:18] That's the attitude you want to have with your team, with your company, with your business, that that attitude of excellence.
[00:47:25] And maintaining the standard of excellence isn't responsibility just of the leadership as the responsibility of everyone.
[00:47:32] Leadership in the long run depends upon the example set by the leader, not only as a war fighter, but also as a citizen and a human being.
[00:47:42] So, the leader has to display a high level of, I'm not sure what the right word is, a high level of bearing, a high level of presence in all situations, not just as a Marine, but in all levels.
[00:48:04] Setting a personal example requires high moral standards reflecting virtue, honor, patriotism, and subordination in personal behavior and in performance.
[00:48:16] These inner qualities that mark leaders, these are the inner qualities that mark leaders.
[00:48:22] Rather than outward marks of greatness, they are often deeply buried, and in many cases, one must look closely to see an individual's inner strength.
[00:48:33] So, you're not always going to see, it's not always a guy beat in his chest.
[00:48:38] That's the best leader.
[00:48:41] And that has an example of that here, Major General John A. Lizzoon.
[00:48:48] Describe Medal of Honor recipient, Sergeant Major John H. Quick, perhaps of all the Marines I ever knew.
[00:48:55] Quick approached more nearly the perfect type of non-commissioned officer, a calm, forceful, intelligent, loyal and courageous man he was.
[00:49:06] I never knew him to raise his voice, Luzes' temper, used profane language, and yet he exacted and obtained prompt and explicit obedience from all persons subject to his orders.
[00:49:25] The image of the Marine-Barking Orders, you have to balance that. You have to balance that with the reality of the example just given Major John H. Quick.
[00:49:45] In the Marine Corps, we are trained to endure combat violence and death, along with other less arduous situations in both peace and war.
[00:49:57] Simply because we bear arms and wield awesome power, we do not have limitless authority to unleash it without due requirement.
[00:50:08] We may not say, as one enemy commander said, kill all burn all, destroy all.
[00:50:19] So again, the image and the stereotype of a Marine or of a American soldier has to be balanced with the facts of who they really are.
[00:50:34] And that is that they are trained, that they don't have limitless authority to unleash the awesome power without due requirement.
[00:50:47] Now, of course, we, these are human beings, and there are military people in the Marine Corps, the Army and the SEAL teams and special operations that go over the line.
[00:51:03] And that's something that gets dealt with. So I'm not sitting here claiming that this is a, you know, a perfect situation.
[00:51:13] But I am giving you the ideal that the Marine Corps itself sets out upon its Marines of what it wants their Marines to be like.
[00:51:26] And a good, we actually used to say this in the SEAL teams as well. And this is how do you figure out when something is like, you know, the right thing to do, do the right thing.
[00:51:36] Because sometimes doing the right thing is opposed to what you're being ordered to do or what the rules are.
[00:51:43] If you are prepared to talk about your actions or lack thereof in front of a national audience made up of all your seniors, peers, subordinates and friends who share the same professional values and whose opinions you value, then your behavior was or is probably ethical and nature.
[00:52:02] So when you're doing something, if you say, okay, I'm going to go on, you know, cable news tomorrow and I'm going to debrief everybody what I did.
[00:52:09] And if you can be proud of it, then it was ethical. And if you're going to be hanging your head low, then it wasn't a good decision. You weren't doing the right thing.
[00:52:19] And that is definitely something that I used to guide my judgment.
[00:52:24] And because that again, the rules are not always what they should be. And what the rules, they don't fit over the situation that you're in.
[00:52:35] And the law is a dynamic thing. And so sometimes the rules that have been put in place for one region, they don't work in the region you're in.
[00:52:42] And so you have to say, okay, you know what, by the book, they could burn me on this one.
[00:52:49] But I can look whoever's charging me and say, this is what I did and this is why I did it. And if you want to send me to the to Leavenworth for that, get out the handcuffs and let's go.
[00:53:05] This is a powerful, this is a powerful paragraph on about the region. It's actually if you listen to the the the podcast that I did with Sam Harris, this is just a, this is a little bit of a different spend on bravery and on courage.
[00:53:24] Courage can be misunderstood. It is more than the ability to overcome the jitters to quail fear to conquer the desire to run.
[00:53:35] It is the ability to know what is or is not to be feared.
[00:53:40] An infantry, an infantryman charging a bunker is not hampered by the fear that he might be struck down a few paces from his fighting hole.
[00:53:50] A pilot is not afraid of losing all hydraulic power in his aircraft. They are both prepared for those outcomes.
[00:54:00] A marine in battle fears discracing himself by running. He fears not losing his life, but losing his honor.
[00:54:10] He may not be able to preserve his life, but he can always preserve his honor.
[00:54:17] That much is within his power to fear disgrace, but not death, to fear not duty, but dereliction from duty. This is courage.
[00:54:34] The truly courageous do not live an anxiety from morning to night. They are calm because they know who they are.
[00:54:52] In that last two sentences about the truly courageous do not live an anxiety from morning to night. They are calm because they know who they are.
[00:55:05] And I definitely, when I hear that statement, I think about the guys that I know that were truly courageous.
[00:55:13] And how they did have that almost peaceful attitude of acceptance because they knew who they were, and they knew what they would do if the moment came for them.
[00:55:36] Another type of more kind of overt courage here from Major Jim Crow.
[00:55:44] Former enlisted man, Marine Gunner, distinguished rifleman, star football player, was a tower of strength throughout the battle.
[00:55:53] His trademark Red Mustache bristling, a combat shotgun, cradled in his arms. He exuded confidence and professionalism.
[00:56:02] Crowe ordered the coxon of his landing craft. Put this goddamn boat in.
[00:56:12] The boat hit the reef at a high speed, sending the marine sprawling. Quickly recovering. Crowe ordered his men over the sides.
[00:56:19] Then led them through several hundred yards of shallow water, reaching the shore intact only four minutes behind the last wave.
[00:56:26] Crowe clenching a cigar in his teeth and standing upright, groubling it as men.
[00:56:33] Look, the sun's a bitch as can't hit me. Why do you think they can hit you? Get moving, go!
[00:56:40] Red Beach 3 was incapable hands.
[00:56:45] Kind of a larger than life, a larger than life image of courage.
[00:56:58] Adaptability. Adaptability has long been our key to overcoming the effects of friction and its components.
[00:57:07] Although it is synonymous with flexibility, adaptability also embraces the spirit of innovation.
[00:57:13] Marines constantly seek to adapt new tactics, organization and procedures to the realities of the environment.
[00:57:21] Deficiencies in existing practices are identified, outdated structure discarded, and modifications made to maintain function and utility.
[00:57:32] That's a little something you might want to do in your life.
[00:57:35] Deficiencies in existing practices are identified, outdated structure discarded, and modifications made to maintain function and utility.
[00:57:45] Yes. Go ahead and note to yourself.
[00:57:51] The ability to adapt enables Marines to be comfortable within an environment dominated by friction.
[00:57:59] We just talked about innovation. Innovation has always been a key component of Marine Court tradition and our style of leadership.
[00:58:07] It is come naturally because our combatant function was and is unique.
[00:58:13] Innovation requires that leaders listen to their subordinates.
[00:58:19] I'm going to say that again. Innovation requires that leaders listen to their subordinates and that a two-way system of communication is maintained.
[00:58:28] Corporals, sergeants, captains, and generals all have responsibility to be innovators.
[00:58:35] That's everybody in your chain of command has a responsibility to be innovation.
[00:58:41] Because innovation is imprecise and because subordinates, especially junior ones will make mistakes protect them.
[00:58:51] Zero defects are not a standard of measurement. They do not encourage initiative. They stifulate.
[00:58:59] So you're junior folks and some of your junior leadership and maybe some of your senior leadership.
[00:59:05] They're going to make some mistakes and you've got to protect them and encourage them to continue on to try to be innovative.
[00:59:15] If we wish to think clearly, if you wish to free your mind, if you wish to think clearly, we must cease imitating.
[00:59:22] If we wish to cease imitating, we must make use of our imagination.
[00:59:27] Now, how often is it that you see a Marine and his service dress blue uniform looking like a statue of perfection?
[00:59:36] How often is it that you think that their manual tells them that they have to make use of their imagination?
[00:59:42] People don't get that image. Now, I've said this before and I'll say it again.
[00:59:48] Combat is an absolute exercise and creativity. That's what it is.
[00:59:55] And you've got to use your imagination.
[00:59:59] We must train ourselves for the unexpected in place of training others for the cut and dried.
[01:00:09] Audacity and not caution must be our watch word.
[01:00:14] Got to take some risks.
[01:00:16] Got to take some risks.
[01:00:19] Now, here's a term that I just like, as a matter of fact, I'm going to use the L word. I love this term.
[01:00:28] The term is fighting power.
[01:00:33] Fighting power is an organization's ability to conduct combat operations by overcoming challenges to lead, compete, and prevail on the battlefield.
[01:00:44] Fighting power rests on mental, intellectual, and organizational foundations in its manifestations in one combination or another.
[01:00:55] Our discipline and cohesion, morale and initiative, courage and toughness, the willingness to fight and the readiness if necessary to die.
[01:01:10] Fighting power in brief is defined as the sum total of mental and physical qualities that make armies fight.
[01:01:21] And you know what? I just added something in there because it actually says mental qualities that make armies fight.
[01:01:26] And I'm adding mental and physical qualities because we've talked about the physical qualities and how important it is.
[01:01:34] Fighting power in brief is defined as the sum total of mental and physical qualities that make army fight make armies fight.
[01:01:41] And what I like about this idea of fighting power is what can you do to improve your fighting power to die.
[01:01:50] What can you do? Is what you're doing helpful? Are you moving it forward? Are you increasing your fighting power?
[01:02:00] Are you decreasing it? Are you going backwards?
[01:02:04] That's the real question here.
[01:02:08] And I think that when you realize that what you do in your life is either doing one or two things.
[01:02:16] It's either increasing your fighting power or decreasing your fighting power.
[01:02:20] Because if you're staying stagnant, you're basically going backwards.
[01:02:30] And here's a little wrap up.
[01:02:34] Here's the leadership principles.
[01:02:39] Be technically and tactically proficient. Know yourself and seek self-improvement.
[01:02:47] Boom. Know your Marines and look out for their welfare.
[01:02:53] Keep your Marines informed.
[01:02:56] Set the example.
[01:02:59] Ensure the task is understood, supervised, and accomplished.
[01:03:05] Train your Marines as a team.
[01:03:09] Make sound and timely decisions.
[01:03:13] Develop a sense of responsibility among your subordinates.
[01:03:18] A little decentralized command.
[01:03:21] Employ your unit in accordance with its capabilities.
[01:03:26] Seek responsibility and take responsibility for your actions once again ownership.
[01:03:33] And I like the Seek responsibility and a little seal saying that we used to have was a look for work.
[01:03:39] So if there's nothing going on, look for work.
[01:03:42] You know, see a new guy standing there not knowing what to do.
[01:03:45] Hey, go look for work.
[01:03:46] Means go pick up a security position.
[01:03:48] Go help move bodies. Go do something.
[01:03:50] Make something happen.
[01:03:51] Seek responsibility.
[01:03:54] And this last statement is just a note to remind everybody of the troopers on the front.
[01:04:02] The troopers on the front lines throughout history.
[01:04:08] The time always comes in battle when the decisions of statesmen and of generals can no longer affect the issue.
[01:04:16] And when it's not the power of our national wealth to change the balance decisively.
[01:04:23] Victory has never achieved prior to that point.
[01:04:27] It can only be one after the battle has been delivered into the hands of men who move in imminent danger of death.
[01:04:38] And that's SLA Marshall.
[01:04:45] The folks on the front lines.
[01:04:48] So for everyone out there that's listening to this podcast, that's all on the front lines right now.
[01:04:55] I salute you all.
[01:04:58] Let's get to the questions.
[01:05:01] All right.
[01:05:03] Okay, first question from Narco 31-E11.
[01:05:09] Will you guys cover injury recovery and the mentality to quick recovery?
[01:05:16] And advice, not to find physical limit without injury.
[01:05:21] Okay. So for this one.
[01:05:28] Well, first of all, train hard.
[01:05:32] But always train smart.
[01:05:34] You know, don't do things that are going to hurt you.
[01:05:38] And this is a balance just like everything else you have to push yourself hard enough that you get stronger.
[01:05:44] But at the same time, you can't push yourself so hard that you get injured.
[01:05:48] So I think that's one of the keys.
[01:05:52] Another key is making sure you take adequate rest.
[01:05:56] Which, of course, I'm usually guilty of not doing that being said when you see me training every day.
[01:06:05] I'm not, you know, I'm not going 110% every day.
[01:06:10] There are some days where I roll under the gym and I say,
[01:06:13] Yeah, okay, this is not it. This is not it. I push myself. I'm injury prone today.
[01:06:18] You know, and so I will taper my workout.
[01:06:21] And I'll usually do some other kind of intensity.
[01:06:24] But let's say I'm not going to lift heavy weights or I'm not going to sprint because I'm feeling tight.
[01:06:29] And I want to pull muscle.
[01:06:30] So you just, you've got to listen to what your body's saying.
[01:06:34] Another thing that I think is important about it is, you know, we talked about on the last podcast is,
[01:06:39] changing your goals and constantly chasing after different goals.
[01:06:43] You know, we're going for a deadlift and then you're going for a mile time run and then you're going for number of goals.
[01:06:49] And you're constantly kind of changing those.
[01:06:52] And I think that is a good way to avoid injury because you're not just hammering the same thing over and over again,
[01:07:00] which I think leads injury now. That being said,
[01:07:04] you don't ever want to just completely stop, you know, elements of your workout.
[01:07:09] You know, you want to keep that's why it's good to not go in these extreme directions.
[01:07:13] And I'll tell you, what I think is the most important thing for me,
[01:07:17] for being relatively injury-free.
[01:07:20] I don't know if it ought to list all my injuries on the next question,
[01:07:24] but relatively injury-free is that I always work out.
[01:07:27] I always work out.
[01:07:29] And I think that when people, I think when people take extended periods of time off,
[01:07:37] and by that I think I mean, you know, you're starting to get into like two weeks,
[01:07:42] three weeks, maybe a month of not doing anything.
[01:07:45] I think when people come back from those is when they get injured,
[01:07:49] when they get hurt because their body's just, it's still strong.
[01:07:53] It still thinks it can do what it did three weeks ago,
[01:07:57] but it can't. It's not conditioned for it.
[01:07:59] And that's when that's when you get hurt.
[01:08:02] Another good piece I think for recovery and is the Isamo Poti Wat.
[01:08:09] Kelly K-star, you know, Go to mobilitywaw.com and just look at that.
[01:08:15] Look at what he's doing. Look at what he's putting out.
[01:08:17] He's got some great stuff to heal yourself and square away your injuries.
[01:08:23] I think stretching is important, but I think people take it to an excess,
[01:08:29] and I think when you do too much of it, I think it's, I think it's causes problems.
[01:08:35] I know, I know some guys that have done extreme yoga,
[01:08:41] and I think extreme yoga is, you know,
[01:08:46] once you go beyond what is normal or a little beyond normal,
[01:08:51] you start to injure yourself and I think that's not good.
[01:08:53] I think it leads to, you know, joint laxity where your,
[01:08:56] your joints can actually move too much, and there's not enough holding them in place.
[01:09:01] So there's the ability, right? Right.
[01:09:03] And so I think just listen to your body.
[01:09:07] And I think the next part of this question will answer in the next question.
[01:09:11] Hmm.
[01:09:13] Just to kind of add to that nutrition as well.
[01:09:17] Oh, yeah. So a lot of people, especially if they're trying to cut up or drop some weight,
[01:09:22] and you know, if you're training for something, you got to make weight that's,
[01:09:25] you know, that's going to be a little bit more specific strategy, but
[01:09:29] a lot of times people will starve themselves.
[01:09:31] Yeah. I'm always telling people like when they're feeling negative,
[01:09:35] and they're feeling like they're injury, but I'm always telling people they're probably lacking fats.
[01:09:38] They're probably lacking good fats, you know?
[01:09:41] Yeah.
[01:09:42] So I agree with you diet is extremely important.
[01:09:44] Yeah.
[01:09:45] And when you work on this, what I learned early on and understanding the importance of this,
[01:09:50] I think really, really helped is if you eat right after you work out,
[01:09:55] don't think that you're going to eat a meal, and that's going to fuel your workout.
[01:09:59] Because it takes a while for the calories to go into your system.
[01:10:03] Yeah.
[01:10:04] Fuel workout.
[01:10:05] It's not going to do it in like an hour.
[01:10:06] So don't eat.
[01:10:07] So go workout then eat after.
[01:10:09] So that those calories and those nutrients will help your body recover.
[01:10:14] And within that hour, that's when your body wants to recover.
[01:10:18] Yeah.
[01:10:18] And wants those nutrients.
[01:10:19] Yeah.
[01:10:20] So doing that, if you starve yourself or don't eat or eat very little,
[01:10:25] your muscles are going to be recovered.
[01:10:27] Your tendons are going to be a little bit more weak.
[01:10:29] Even when you do recover, it didn't take in those nutrients.
[01:10:32] Yeah.
[01:10:33] So you will be way more prone.
[01:10:35] I probably need to do a better job of that as you will.
[01:10:38] People always ask me, and I get done working out, you know, like five or six,
[01:10:41] well, maybe six o'clock in the morning.
[01:10:43] I'm done working out.
[01:10:44] And I usually don't eat until 9 or 10, you know?
[01:10:49] So I probably need to do better job of that.
[01:10:51] I'll take echo Charles to sit by.
[01:10:53] So that one.
[01:10:54] Yeah.
[01:10:55] That's fun.
[01:10:56] But I've opened mine.
[01:10:57] So it's cool.
[01:10:58] I can do that.
[01:10:59] Yeah.
[01:11:00] In the body building world, that's like a no brainer called the anabolic window.
[01:11:05] And it's like, you can see little jokes on it.
[01:11:08] Where it's like kind of jump through that.
[01:11:09] All he best is anabolic window.
[01:11:11] And it shows a picture of like a guy holding a guy dying or something.
[01:11:14] Yeah.
[01:11:15] It's a real important thing.
[01:11:16] And it helps so much.
[01:11:17] We'll give it a shot.
[01:11:19] Right on.
[01:11:20] Next question.
[01:11:21] From.
[01:11:24] What honey bees do?
[01:11:30] Oh.
[01:11:32] When it's all one word, it's just kind of strange.
[01:11:34] Okay.
[01:11:35] What honey bees do?
[01:11:36] You're not on the decoding.
[01:11:37] Yeah, you're not on the decoding.
[01:11:41] You're not on the decoding.
[01:11:42] I'm not on the decoding.
[01:11:43] You're not on the decoding.
[01:11:44] You're not on the decoding.
[01:11:45] It's what honey bees do.
[01:11:46] You never had honey bees do.
[01:11:47] What the honey bees do.
[01:11:49] What injuries.
[01:11:51] Just what honey bees do.
[01:11:53] Not the honey bees.
[01:11:55] All right.
[01:11:56] You get a third chance.
[01:11:58] What injuries have you gotten?
[01:12:00] And how did you adapt?
[01:12:02] So obviously active lifestyle.
[01:12:06] You know, growing up and spending my life in the sealed teams.
[01:12:14] Tone of injuries from everything.
[01:12:17] I've had MCL terror of spraying ankles, shoulders, wrists, lower back, elbows.
[01:12:23] But the most serious actual injury that I had was a head neck.
[01:12:28] I had neck surgery.
[01:12:29] So I had a foreman on me and my neck, which is they go in and they scrape some bone away from the foreman.
[01:12:35] Which hurt bad when they did it.
[01:12:39] But it's been really good.
[01:12:43] I was really, I mean, I had like lost movement in my arm for a little while.
[01:12:51] I write arm from your neck.
[01:12:52] From my neck injury.
[01:12:53] How did you do that?
[01:12:54] Just grinding over time.
[01:12:56] And you know, I remember there's one part of seal training where you're carrying these boats on your head.
[01:13:03] Which is not that big of a deal.
[01:13:05] But then the instructors would jump from boat to boat.
[01:13:08] So you get these 200 pound instructors and they're just jumping.
[01:13:11] They're boats on your head and they're jumping from boat to boat.
[01:13:13] And it's, I remember an instructor jumping into the boat and landing pretty much where I was.
[01:13:19] And I remember hearing a grinding noise in my neck.
[01:13:24] And I, you know, of course, I was 19 years old.
[01:13:27] So I didn't care bringing on.
[01:13:29] But they don't, they don't do that anymore.
[01:13:32] You don't jump from boat to boat anymore, which is cool.
[01:13:35] They shouldn't.
[01:13:36] It's not good for you.
[01:13:37] So, but anyways, with all these injuries, whether it's MCL, Terre, whether it's, you know, high ankle sprains.
[01:13:43] And, and all kinds of ligament damages in my, in my ankles and my lower back, which I've injured a few times,
[01:13:49] almost almost all muscular there.
[01:13:52] Uh, what I do is I do the same thing with all of them.
[01:13:56] And that is I do whatever I can.
[01:13:58] And if I, if I, when I hurt my knee and I couldn't squat, I could do like a quarter squat.
[01:14:03] I did a quarter squats.
[01:14:04] You know, I'd go out the garage and I'd stand there with nobody waiting to do quarter squats and get the blood moving.
[01:14:09] And, you know, then I'd try and do my other body parts and, you know, could do pull up still.
[01:14:15] And so I did dead hangpuls.
[01:14:17] I couldn't even move my knee to like, keep it all.
[01:14:19] So I did what I could there.
[01:14:21] You know, so you can't do ring dips, do regular dips.
[01:14:24] If you can't do dips, do push ups.
[01:14:25] You can't do push ups. You can't do push ups. Push off of a wall.
[01:14:27] Whatever it takes to get something done.
[01:14:30] You can't lift that 40 kilogram kettlebell lift the 24 kilogram kettlebell.
[01:14:35] Just do something move, get the blood in there.
[01:14:39] And I don't always get the blood in there because I always think that the more you're moving and the more you're using that range of motion,
[01:14:45] the faster you're going to heal.
[01:14:47] You know, you're just circulating more repairing nutrients to your body.
[01:14:51] So it would make sense to me that that's going to help you heal.
[01:14:55] Now, of course, you can read damage. You can go worse.
[01:14:59] You know, if it hurts to do a quarter squat and so you do half squat, you're going backwards.
[01:15:03] Yeah.
[01:15:04] You know, so you want to stay within the range of motion,
[01:15:06] where you're not re-entering it or making it worse.
[01:15:08] So don't be stupid.
[01:15:11] But do get the movement going.
[01:15:14] And also, I don't know what I would do mentally if I would couldn't do anything at all.
[01:15:19] Now when I hurt my neck, though, I was laid up.
[01:15:21] I didn't think I was going to be.
[01:15:23] I was going to go power through it.
[01:15:24] And then the tough guy, yeah.
[01:15:25] No, I was laid up with my head and just hurt him.
[01:15:29] And but I'll tell you as soon as I could get up and start trying to walk around,
[01:15:33] I did it. And like I said, try to stay sane.
[01:15:36] And then the other thing that happens is when you have these injuries,
[01:15:39] you know, you're, you got to adapt your goals.
[01:15:42] You know, and you got to set new goals.
[01:15:44] Okay. You know, and really, I've never really fully regained the strength in my right arm and my right path.
[01:15:48] It's not as strong as it was.
[01:15:50] And it's definitely way weaker than my other side.
[01:15:53] You know, it's probably at 70 or 80 percent.
[01:15:57] And you know, I just have to say, okay, well, what can I do?
[01:16:01] It's like, okay, you're going to be normal human now.
[01:16:04] You know, so, so here's what here's, here's what your new goals are.
[01:16:09] And I'm, you know, I'm still trying to improve and get better at whatever it is.
[01:16:13] But, you know, injuries are going to happen in life.
[01:16:17] And you've got to just do your best you can to work through them as smartly as you possibly can.
[01:16:23] And kind of to add to the, the train smart.
[01:16:27] This may seem obvious, but when you do like higher rep, like heavier weight or not higher reps,
[01:16:33] sorry, heavier weight, lower reps or real explosive stuff, you're going to be more prone to injury.
[01:16:39] So even being just more conscious of your movement.
[01:16:43] Yeah. And really avoiding those types of movements when you feel an injury start to come on,
[01:16:48] like if you get a little lower back thing or a shoulder thing.
[01:16:51] For sure.
[01:16:53] Just be conscious of your movement way more.
[01:16:56] Today I was dead lifting and I was like, no, okay, we're done dead lifting for the day.
[01:17:01] Yeah.
[01:17:02] And, and you know, I definitely spared myself being laid up.
[01:17:06] You know, and I just got out the roller and just grounded out for a while, got out the ball, grounded out for a while.
[01:17:11] But for sure, you got to listen, you got to pay attention.
[01:17:14] And if you feel that little twins, it's no big deal.
[01:17:17] You know, there's plenty of other ways to get your, to get your workout on besides jack and the big steal.
[01:17:22] So yeah, and you, um, like, how you're staying, bodyweight squats, you'll just do, you know, like if you're,
[01:17:28] if you had a six-squat workout planned, and you feel your lower back or your IT band is a big one where
[01:17:35] when you, when you get after it in squats, that'll, um, a lot of times act up.
[01:17:40] Well, I spray my ankle, sick enough, probably four or five months ago, and it, I couldn't do, it was weird.
[01:17:46] It's one of those weird things.
[01:17:47] I couldn't do overhead squats, but I could do, oh, it's gross.
[01:17:51] Like after a snatch.
[01:17:53] Yes, I couldn't do overhead squats because it hurt my ankle for whatever reason, but I could do front squats and regular squats.
[01:17:58] And I couldn't go to full, the ones I could still go to full depth on.
[01:18:01] Again, I don't know why I'm not a physician.
[01:18:03] Front squats felt the best.
[01:18:05] So I started doing more, more front squats at the time, and then eventually, you know,
[01:18:10] and now I'm back to doing everything.
[01:18:12] So figure out what you can get away with, figure out what you can do and do it.
[01:18:16] Also, when it in regards to being conscious of, like, your movement a lot of times,
[01:18:21] I know this is the case for me, where I'll get little injuries from just like,
[01:18:26] racking or unracking weights just because it's like, oh, maybe I need to do more functional training, my friend.
[01:18:32] I don't always get injured, but I think it's getting little things.
[01:18:36] Because a lot of times that, it's like, it's unconscious.
[01:18:39] I'm just put this over here, and you're not, mean while if you do a clean and jerk,
[01:18:45] you're like, okay, I'm going to focus on this good technique.
[01:18:48] So again, that goes along with being careful of your movement, being conscious of it.
[01:18:54] Especially when you feel when you hit that fatigue, when you've been working out for a three week straight,
[01:18:59] hard, very little rest, you're under, and you start to feel these little things come about.
[01:19:06] I think it's important to be conscious of those things.
[01:19:09] Yes. And also, to what you were saying earlier, if my head's not in the game, I'm not Jack and the big weights.
[01:19:15] Yeah.
[01:19:15] Because you've got to be thinking about it. You've got to be thinking about your body position before you do,
[01:19:20] before you just try and grab on this big weight and throw it around.
[01:19:23] Yeah.
[01:19:24] You've got to get your head in the game.
[01:19:29] All right. Next question. This was actually my question.
[01:19:33] A question from Echo. I'm buying with a question from someone else.
[01:19:36] Yeah. Yes. Yes. Sure.
[01:19:38] Okay. So public speaking, right? How did you, like I've seen some of your speeches,
[01:19:43] how did you get good at it? Because that's a daunting nerve-wracking thing.
[01:19:48] In fact, like some people, they prefer death over public speaking. Literally.
[01:19:55] Yes. That's heavy.
[01:19:57] So what's your mindset, you know, for keeping from being nervous?
[01:20:03] And then that's coupled with another question here.
[01:20:06] Right. Which we got from the WEPS.
[01:20:07] Conquering fear in general. Right.
[01:20:09] Right. If you're a failure, a fear of rejection, the unknown.
[01:20:14] What would your advice be to someone who wants to start a business or a major project?
[01:20:20] But they're held back by fear.
[01:20:23] So this is, again, it's interesting for me because public speaking is not something
[01:20:31] that induces fear of me, it never has.
[01:20:34] But I know that it does make people scared.
[01:20:39] And I think that overcoming the key to any overcoming any fear in my mind is we talked about
[01:20:47] the law earlier, which is a noculation.
[01:20:49] And this idea, and I actually looked up the definition of an occupation.
[01:20:53] And it's the introduction of a pathogen or antigen into a living organism to stimulate
[01:20:59] the production of antibiotic antibodies.
[01:21:01] So you're giving yourself a little bit.
[01:21:04] Right. And you give yourself a little bit and you build up all of that.
[01:21:07] And that's what you do. You take the small doses.
[01:21:10] So it prepares you for the bigger, bigger doses.
[01:21:12] And one of my daughters, my middle daughter, she was really wanting to be in the school play,
[01:21:20] right, and other plays around town.
[01:21:24] And you know, okay, cool. Well, that's cool, but she was horrified to go out in front of an audience.
[01:21:30] horrified.
[01:21:31] And so I looked up and I said, okay, how do you stop in your kids from being
[01:21:36] getting stage fright? Is it what they call it?
[01:21:39] And you know, I read about people what they did and what I did was I said,
[01:21:43] I'd say, okay, sing a song for me.
[01:21:47] And it's not that big of a deal because I'm a dad.
[01:21:50] So she'd sing a song for me.
[01:21:52] And even then she'd be a little bit embarrassed, but she'd sing a song for me.
[01:21:55] And then you know, a couple days, they write my wife, hey, sing that song for both of us.
[01:21:59] And then it was, oh, my wife's got a friend over. Hey, sing that song for the three of us.
[01:22:04] Because I get a mystery person and unknown in the room.
[01:22:07] Yeah, because she's overcoming that fear.
[01:22:09] And each time she's getting a little bit more and more confident.
[01:22:12] Because we took her to, what do they call triodes?
[01:22:16] What's triodes called audition?
[01:22:18] Audition. We took her to a couple auditions where it was her turn and she didn't go.
[01:22:23] She broke down to crying and just just couldn't handle it.
[01:22:28] And so then it was, then it was a few of my wife's friends over.
[01:22:32] Then it was some of my friends, Rovers. Now you got, you know, guys and girls.
[01:22:36] And each time she got more and more confident.
[01:22:39] And eventually she just didn't care anymore.
[01:22:41] And she was totally confident and she got the lead role in the school way.
[01:22:45] She legitimately got the lead role in the school way.
[01:22:48] So she was able to overcome that fear.
[01:22:50] And in the sealed teams, we do the same kind of thing.
[01:22:52] We know where you're going to get a noculator to get stressed.
[01:22:56] As much as they can stress you out in the sealed teams, they're going to stress you out.
[01:22:59] You're going to be machine gunfire. You're going to be used to that.
[01:23:02] There's going to be explosives going off.
[01:23:03] You're going to be used to that. We used to do live fire, machine gun drills and
[01:23:07] And I add drills and immediate action drills.
[01:23:10] We are maneuvering around.
[01:23:12] We used to do that without your protection and sometimes so you get used to this crazy
[01:23:15] Manning.
[01:23:16] We don't do that anymore because it's not smart.
[01:23:18] But you do that to anoculate.
[01:23:22] It's like what you were talking about earlier.
[01:23:23] When that gun goes off, you should be completely comfortable with it.
[01:23:26] There's one of my favorite stories on that one of my favorite stories.
[01:23:29] One of my buddy of mine who actually took my job.
[01:23:33] I was a tasky to commander. He actually took my job as tasky to commander.
[01:23:37] And a flash bang is a grenade that you throw into a room before you go into the room.
[01:23:42] And it makes a loud explosion and smoke.
[01:23:44] And then it allows you to enter in on the room when the people that are inside are now startled.
[01:23:49] So you have an advantage.
[01:23:51] Well, occasionally you have to open the door to throw the crash in there.
[01:23:56] And occasionally someone will open the door and someone will run in.
[01:23:59] They're leading coordinator well.
[01:24:01] So open the door, guy runs in and then someone throws the crash in.
[01:24:04] So now you're crashing yourself.
[01:24:06] It's not that big of a deal. You've got to use to it.
[01:24:09] But what happened with one of his new guys, you know, that happened.
[01:24:12] So the door went open.
[01:24:14] The guy went in and I walled the guy's running in.
[01:24:16] Somebody throws a crash in there.
[01:24:18] They sees the crash and he runs back out of the room, which is not what you're supposed to do.
[01:24:23] So this guy was the tasky to commander. He goes,
[01:24:26] Hey, come with me down here.
[01:24:28] And so they walked down and he brought him into a closet in the kill house.
[01:24:31] And just sat in there and said, yeah, how's it going?
[01:24:34] And then just sat there in the dark and dropped like eight crashes at their feet and just bossing the guy.
[01:24:39] Because you realize you just got to get anoculated.
[01:24:42] You know, you just got to overcome it.
[01:24:44] So that's kind of, I guess my my theory here would be if you're afraid of fighting and altercations.
[01:24:54] Go change the jitter if you're afraid of heights.
[01:24:57] Work on some rock climbing climbing. If you're afraid of the water.
[01:25:01] Time to swim. It's time to surf. It's time to get out there.
[01:25:04] If you're afraid of pull ups.
[01:25:05] If you're afraid of pull ups, do pull ups. If you're in squats, do squats.
[01:25:08] If you're afraid of public speaking.
[01:25:10] Go speak in public.
[01:25:12] If you're afraid to start a business.
[01:25:16] Start a business. Make it small.
[01:25:18] And on all these, what you have to do is you have to mitigate the risk and you have to ease yourself into it.
[01:25:23] But you got to go for it.
[01:25:25] And eventually you will overcome that fear.
[01:25:31] But the hard part is you got to take that first step.
[01:25:36] You got to take that first step to begin to anoculate yourself against the fear.
[01:25:41] Against the fear of the thing.
[01:25:44] That's in your mind.
[01:25:45] Because that fear generally is in your mind.
[01:25:47] When you get up on stage, do you public speaking?
[01:25:51] People are not going to throw tomatoes at you and say,
[01:25:54] You're an idiot to get off the stage.
[01:25:56] No. They're going to sit there.
[01:25:58] So there's nothing to fear.
[01:26:00] It's in your head.
[01:26:02] Hey, those flash grenades.
[01:26:05] They don't cause any damage to people.
[01:26:08] They're just, I mean, you don't want them next to your eye.
[01:26:11] They're loud and they make a big boom and they're explosive.
[01:26:15] But yeah, they don't hurt you.
[01:26:17] Generally, they days you.
[01:26:19] They've been, they've been days.
[01:26:21] They stun you.
[01:26:22] Yeah. So like what if I had one in like my pocket?
[01:26:25] And it went off?
[01:26:26] Yeah.
[01:26:26] You'd get a little, you'd get a little some.
[01:26:28] Not an injured.
[01:26:29] I'd get hurt not injured.
[01:26:30] You'd get, yeah, you'd get hurt not injured.
[01:26:32] Yeah.
[01:26:33] I could go lift or something.
[01:26:35] Yeah. You'd be, you'd be sore.
[01:26:36] Yeah.
[01:26:37] Yeah.
[01:26:38] I never let one off in my pocket.
[01:26:39] Yeah.
[01:26:40] I always wonder about those.
[01:26:41] Because they're, yeah.
[01:26:43] All right. Next question.
[01:26:45] Okay. And podcast number seven.
[01:26:47] You answered a question which was essentially about how a subordinate might cope with a leader
[01:26:52] who wasn't competent.
[01:26:54] Mm-hmm.
[01:26:55] So this person is interested in your thoughts on the opposite side of the coin.
[01:27:01] For example, if you're that guy, quote unquote.
[01:27:04] Mm-hmm.
[01:27:05] And you know it. How can you still lead a team effectively, given the lack of competence, given
[01:27:13] the lack of competence can undermine the team's trust and confidence in you?
[01:27:17] So, so this question is you are that guy.
[01:27:20] Yeah.
[01:27:21] You're the guy that doesn't have the knowledge.
[01:27:23] You're the guy that's inexperienced.
[01:27:24] You're the guy that just got hired.
[01:27:26] That's good that you know it.
[01:27:27] That's good.
[01:27:28] Right.
[01:27:29] Yes.
[01:27:29] He's done a good job.
[01:27:31] He's done a good job.
[01:27:31] By recognizing that.
[01:27:32] That's that is step number one.
[01:27:33] He's recognized that he's the guy that he's inexperienced.
[01:27:36] He doesn't have a knowledge, et cetera.
[01:27:37] So this question, while it might seem like a tough question, it's actually easy
[01:27:43] and you might think because competence and knowledge definitely are very beneficial
[01:27:50] for leadership.
[01:27:51] The knowledge piece and knowing the technical side of what you're trying to lead a team
[01:27:56] and but it is definitely not mandatory.
[01:28:00] Now, if you don't have it, of course, you should strive to get it because it will make you a better leader.
[01:28:06] But in certain situations, there's times where you have to lead and you have to lead now.
[01:28:11] That does happen.
[01:28:13] So what do you do and how do you lead when you're in that situation?
[01:28:16] And it's actually pretty easy.
[01:28:18] You lead almost the exact same way that you would in any other situation.
[01:28:23] Humbley and with an open mind.
[01:28:27] So leadership is the same regardless of what you know.
[01:28:33] Think about it.
[01:28:34] Leadership is the same regardless of what you know.
[01:28:36] What you're going to do is you're going to gather ideas because you don't really have
[01:28:40] and you don't see.
[01:28:41] You're going to gather them from the other people, right?
[01:28:43] You're going to explore the different methods, right?
[01:28:45] Because you don't know any of the other methods.
[01:28:47] So you're just going to explore and say, how would you do it?
[01:28:49] How would you do it?
[01:28:50] You're going to weigh the different courses of action.
[01:28:53] Because you're not sure which one is going to be the best.
[01:28:58] It's not going to be super evident, which course of action is going to be the best.
[01:29:01] You're going to listen.
[01:29:02] Listen to what people are saying.
[01:29:04] You're going to keep an open mind.
[01:29:06] Any here what they're saying.
[01:29:10] You're going to show that you're a quick learner and you're going to listen and learn.
[01:29:15] And how do you show that you're a quick learner?
[01:29:17] You show that you're a quick learner by being a quick learner.
[01:29:20] And how do you be a quick learner by studying?
[01:29:22] So when it comes to when there's stuff that you should know,
[01:29:25] then you study it and you learn it and you prove.
[01:29:29] And then you take all this information that you've got and you weigh the decision and then you make one.
[01:29:36] And again, that's how you should be leading anyways, right?
[01:29:41] So, so let me ask you this, just because you know the most, right?
[01:29:44] If you are the most knowledgeable on the team, does that mean you're going to plan everything yourself?
[01:29:48] No, no, it doesn't.
[01:29:50] Does that mean you're going to make your decisions in a vacuum by yourself?
[01:29:53] Just, no, if you're a good leader, you're not going to do that at all.
[01:29:56] Does it mean you're going to make decisions and move forward without consulting with people?
[01:30:00] No, it doesn't.
[01:30:02] So all this means is that you're going to do all those things.
[01:30:05] You are going to get consensus from the group.
[01:30:08] You're going to get people on board.
[01:30:09] You're going to talk to them and see what their ideas are.
[01:30:12] And again, I shouldn't have used the word consensus because you can't always bleed by consensus.
[01:30:16] That can be that can become difficult.
[01:30:18] But you're going to listen, you're going to learn, you're going to talk to people about what you're doing.
[01:30:22] And that's how you're going to lead again.
[01:30:26] It's almost the exact same thing.
[01:30:28] The only thing that gets added if you are sort of a technical expertise,
[01:30:32] you can be a little bit more of a sanity check on, you know, let's say a plan that people are coming up with.
[01:30:38] If, if, if we were doing a computer, you know, soft-wrenching engineering problem,
[01:30:44] I would not be able to add my technical expertise.
[01:30:48] But if, you know, for the computers, the engineers came to me and presented what their ideas were,
[01:30:53] I'd be able to look at them logically and say, okay, explain to me out and ask enough questions until I said,
[01:30:57] Okay, guys, here's what I'm thinking.
[01:30:59] I think we should go with, you know, method B or whatever.
[01:31:02] And the other people can kind of counter and then eventually we can make that decision happen.
[01:31:06] So if I had the knowledge myself, then I could make that decision a little bit easier.
[01:31:11] And I could add a little bit of a sanity check, but it's not life and death.
[01:31:16] And the other thing that's interesting is when you do have the knowledge yourself,
[01:31:22] you can, you can actually come off as a note all, which is not a good leader.
[01:31:29] So in both cases, whether you are the technical expert or whether you're not the leadership principle,
[01:31:36] stay the same, be humble, be open minded, listen, learn and lead.
[01:31:44] Last question, what is your greatest weakness and what are you doing to work through or around it?
[01:31:55] What is my greatest weakness, my biggest weakness?
[01:32:01] And that's actually a hard question.
[01:32:04] Because when I think about it, frankly, I am nothing but weakness.
[01:32:12] I'm not naturally strong, I'm not naturally fast, I'm not naturally flexible.
[01:32:17] I'm certainly not the smartest guy in the world.
[01:32:23] And I get emotional over stupid things and I eat the wrong foods and I don't sleep enough.
[01:32:30] And I procrastinate and I waste time and I care too much about stupid things and not enough about important things.
[01:32:40] And of course, my ego is too big.
[01:32:45] But at the same time, my mind is too small and it's trapped inside itself.
[01:32:53] But now that being said, I have a saying.
[01:32:58] And you've probably heard me say it before, a person's strengths are often their biggest weaknesses.
[01:33:06] And so that also means that their weaknesses can be their strengths.
[01:33:14] So me, I am weak.
[01:33:20] In all those ways that I listed, I am weak, but I don't accept that.
[01:33:29] I don't accept that I am what I am and that that is what I'm doomed to be.
[01:33:37] No, I don't accept that. I'm fighting.
[01:33:42] I'm always fighting, I'm struggling and I'm strapping, I'm kicking and clawing at those weaknesses to change them, to stop them.
[01:33:56] Some days I win.
[01:34:00] Some days I don't.
[01:34:03] But each and every day I get back up and I move forward.
[01:34:10] With my fist clenched toward the battle, toward the struggle.
[01:34:17] And I fight with everything I've got to overcome those weaknesses and those shortfalls and those flaws.
[01:34:25] As I strive to be just a little bit better today than I was yesterday.
[01:34:39] And I think that that about wraps it up for tonight.
[01:34:44] And like we always say, if you want to continue this conversation or you want to engage in one
[01:34:53] or you want to hang with us virtually, you can find us on Twitter, I'm at Jocca Willink and Echo is at Echo Charles.
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[01:35:13] Thanks for being better and most of all.
[01:35:20] Thanks to all of you for getting after it.
[01:35:26] This is Jocca Willinko and until next time, out.